Each of us harbors a dream, a fiercely held flame of hope and desire that burns quietly yet brightly deep within us.
It can be something we’d like to do or see or experience, someone we’ve always wanted to meet, somewhere we really want to visit. Or something we create.
Often we hold it as a secret. We don’t tend to share our dream with others for many reasons. We’re shy, nervous, embarrassed or intimidated. We’re afraid of failure. Or perhaps it’s simply because we’re intensely private.
But sometimes we choose to share our dream as a way to help us visualize our success in achieving it. We make ourselves accountable to others, believing that their knowledge of our dream will spur us on to completion.
When I wrote the title of this post, I consciously chose the phrase ‘widely-shared’ for two reasons.
First, earlier this year Jo Parfitt bravely announced publicly that she was writing a novel for publication this autumn. She put herself out there, on report.
Family, friends, fans, followers, readers all took note and the vigil began.
‘So, when is your novel being published?’
‘Is it done yet? Are you in the editing phase?
‘What’s the launch date? When can we buy it?’
She dutifully answered these and myriad other questions, and kept plugging away.
Second, writing a book is an extremely popular dream. As a publisher, author, writing consultant and mentor to many, Jo regularly mentions that many people wish to become an author. I’ve read of a survey in the US claiming 81% of Americans want to write a book, and I’m fairly confident the percentages carry over around much of the world. Yet she points out that something like only 2% of people actually do so.
Jo herself has already achieved that dream many times over. She’s written and published a whopping 27 books: non-fiction, how-to’s, even a book of beautiful, evocative poetry about expat life lived in distant lands.
But for many (dare I say most?) writers, penning a novel is considered the Holy Grail.
The need to conjure a plot that pulls you in, to include enough twists and turns to keep you turning the page, to develop well-rounded characters that you care about, to craft believable dialogue, to keep the pace moving appropriately and bring it all to creative resolution? Well, that takes talent and time and tenacity.
I should know. I’m working diligently plodding along on a non-fiction book that I sincerely hope will be published in the coming months. It is important to me, it deserves my attention, so I’ve given it my commitment. That includes owning up to it here on this site.
Yet when I attend my twice monthly Writers’ Group? I usually bring a scene or chapter section from my novel. It’s in the very early stages, definitely a work in progress.
We’re talking only about 8,000 words written out of a likely 70,000-90,000. Slow-going? Oh yeah. Big time.
So the other evening I was honored and thrilled to attend the Press/VIP book launch and reception for Jo’s wonderful new novel, Sunshine Soup (Summertime Publishing, also includes a pass-through link to Amazon.com in the US).
Standing there among others who love, respect and support Jo, I couldn’t help but be excited. There was a real energy in the room, a palpable buzz.
Reading an excerpt from her newly published novel (and 28th book) in a roomful of writers, journalists, poets, authors and aspiring authors, Jo was realizing her dream.
To hear an author lovingly speak the very words that they have brought forth, words that likely have spent so much time in the fertile recesses of their creator’s mind? Simply put, it brings chills.
It’s that magical, that inspiring.
As she does on a daily basis, Jo Parfitt was also fueling the hopes and dreams of many, many others.
No matter how much time, effort, focus, passion and frustration it may take, count me in.
























It’s a book that will resonate with every woman who’s uprooted themselves and their families to start life anew in a faraway land to support the man they love.
Jo’s captured a wide range of situations and accompanying emotions that ring true for expat life, hasn’t she?
Me too.
It takes courage to put yourself on the line, lay your soul open after months, sometimes years, of solitary plodding away at a keyboard. Often alone and isolated, except for the characters in your head, putting words into an order and framework you hope will resonate with others is a tough business.
Dreams are fragile things but Jo has lived hers big giving inspiration and determination to others. Her book launch was a great evening. Magical and inspiring? Hell yeh!
Thanks Wordgeyser, it certainly was. Knowing other authors face moments of frustration and concern along the way (as she shared) gives hope to the rest of us to keep going. No wonder she’s achieved so much!
Way to go Jo! Kill your dreams. Not in a “let them languish” sort of way, but in a “get them done, so they are not dreams anymore, and then you can move on to the next one” sort of way.
By the way, that number, 27, is intimidating. That’s a lot of years of sustained, hard work.
–Matt Krause
Thanks Matt, and the novel makes 28. Whew! If you’ve ever met Jo in person you know she is a whirling dervish of planning, strategy and action. She sets her mind to do something and does it, and is always, always, always learning and evolving.
Isn’t it funny the things we find out through a blog? I never knew you had a love for writing, and I don’t you knew that about me.
Great post, and best of luck with your writing!
Cheering for you all the way from NC!
Thanks Carol. It’s amazing what we’ve got going on, isn’t it? But I can’t say that I’m surprised. You’ve always had a keen eye and way with words; your wry observations would make me chuckle. Time to soar
Oh goodness Linda, this has also been my dream! I am not a non-fiction person and an avid reader of novels myself, but a few weeks ago I actually finished writing my novel and sent it out to my tutor/mentor who teaches creative writing in the US. He is making all kinds of encouraging noises but I am waiting… What next? It was an incredible feeling of achievement finishing the novel, so that in itself was hugely satisfying… But you are right, I have been bombarded with questions and wish I had never told anyone I have been writing it… Ugh. But the experience your friend Jo had recently – reading excerpts from her novel aloud at her book launch – must have been wonderful. I embrace her, and I envy her! I hope it will be me soon! Meanwhile, as the Japanese say, “Ganbatte” with your book (“keep going”!) Thanks for this lovely post.
Why thank you Emma, I appreciate that. I’m so excited for you: finishing a novel and sending it out into the world has to be both exhilarating and nerve-racking at the same time. My friends who’ve been published all say shopping around a manuscript and going through the editing process really test you. That’s wonderful that you’re hearing good things; I’ll be sending positive vibes westward that things move quickly!
…and we love it when you read a scene or chapter from your novel and the discussions, suprise and delight that they trigger…but also the questions. When your book comes out we, your Writer’s Group, will all be focusing on THAT car….. Rx
Thanks, you had me laughing out loud with ‘THAT car’… Oh the pressure to do right by that car, it’s overwheming. I enjoy our Writers’ Group so much, not only for the cameraderie and insights, but also the range of genre and subjects members decide to tackle. Very inspiring indeed.
OMG ! Thanks guys. What you did not say, Linda, was that it was not easy writing the novel – the hardest, most exposing, scary thing I have ever done. After 27 books, non-fiction is almost a doddle in comparison for me. But, you know, doing it was like shedding a skin. I am now free of the world I created and ready to create the next one. And yes, Linda, it was my dream, the only kind of writing, I really rate for myself. This was the only way, after all the other books I could begin to believe I was a real writer. Daft eh? Thank you ALL for your support on my journey. Stick with me for the ride, as I will stick with you. Jo
After 27 books you may find non-fiction ‘doddle’ compared to writing fiction, but good writing is still good writing. Few do it consistently well!
Congrats, Jo. Sending you (and Linda) the very best publishing and future writing success ‘vibes’ from all the way o’er here in Australia.
Looking forward to reading/hearing updates from the both of you on your respective writing journeys.
Cheers,
Russell
Thanks and ditto for you Russell. I enjoy seeing all of the great places your articles are being published. Nicely done!
Oh boy! I’m in the very beginning of getting some stuff down for a possible book. It’s not a novel, more of a memoir (how precocious/pretentious does THAT sound!) but as it’s very personal, the idea of reading it out to a roomful of people is stomach churning! Hmmm, was thinking of alternatives, an actor perhaps, then realised… no-one is going to read it as it was meant to be read apart from the person who wrote it! Time to toughen up!
Hats off to all you guys who have made the dream a reality by sheer hard work and determination.
Memoir/life stories is a great genre, despite the name. Good for you for starting the writing. If it’s written honestly, I’m sure when it’s done you’ll be ready to share it with others. What an exciting project to be working on. Good luck and keep going!